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Wow, Last Night…

First up, I added Office Slut to Angel Access.

That cover? I loooooove it. My momma was like, ow, I would smack a man who does that to me if I even put those damn panties on. Haha so my mom is dating. My parents got divorced a while back AAAAND my mom’s second marriage didn’t work out too well. No luck with love in this family!!!…or is it changing?

I called my mom before my date last night – FaceTimed her after I did my makeup. She was like, oh wow you look like a really classy slut… good job. HAHA! Love that woman, she’s sassy and a half.

So I have no idea what to expect and I decided to keep it pretty casual (we can’t all have steak dinners with personal waiters) and I’m glad I did.

Jason (CVS Guy) owns a Mexican-Asian fusion restaurant but like a really casual cafe. It was fun, like asian tacos or mexican noodle bowls, nothing too complicated. But it was nice. It had live music. We had a great time. The conversation was the best part. He’s funny. After a lot of conversation he asked me what I do, and I had been vague and said I was a writer. But then when I told him what kind of author I was, he was like, whoa.

He got really quiet and I was like, fuck, did I ruin everything here or what? Then I was like well if he can’t respect what I do then this is over anyway.

Jason exhales and looks over at me with this really adorable, charming grin and he’s like, wow, guess there’s even more pressure on this date than I thought. I mean, you must have written so many.

I found that adorable. I told him not to worry, I’m real and he’s real and I’m not comparing him to a book.

You can tell because I didn’t sleep with him. Haha, in a Lana book there’d be like a spanking or something involved by now.

He had a naughty look in his eye when he dropped me off last night, this devilish twinkle, and he kissed me and it was a like five star kiss.

I think I’ll text him again. Any mexican food I eat without indigestion like already would have made my door dash list but haha like I had a really good time with him. It was nice to have my great big happily ever after weighing on my head.

But all the same, I know… I’m not a lotsa dating kinda girl. I want to settle down. But I guess a whole lot of dating is how I find THE ONE, right?

Wish me luck out there in that wild dating world.

9 thoughts on “Wow, Last Night…

  1. It sounds like he was a nice guy and you had fun. That’s a wonderful first date and hopefully you can build on it. Fingers crossed.

  2. Well, best of luck! Glad you had a good time! Been married for so long, I wouldn’t even know where to begin in the dating world. Lol.

  3. Welll…like comment before, I’ve been married for awhile (41yrs) so I’ve NO idea what the dating scene is like these days but when you say you’re not into a lot of dating you just want to settle down, don’t you need to date a while to decide IF this guy might just be the one you want to spend your forever with? Is like say 6 months too long? A year too long? I don’t think so but then again I only dated 6 weeks before we moved in with each other & before a year was up we were married. We still have rough spots but we’re still together. So there’s 2 sides to every coin. Weigh them both, you’re the only one who can decide in the end what’s right for you. Happy dating either way!!

    1. Thank you so much for this thoughtful response. So what I mean was I didn’t want to date a lot of guys, but dating for a long time I am totally down for, otherwise I might get into something too fast. 6 months or a year is totally a great amount of time to get to know each other. I have friends that dating for years before getting married. Thanks again for your comment Cindy you gave me a lot to think about!

    2. I’m of the same mind as you are Cindy. I’ve been with my husband for 30 years. We didn’t do alot of dating during our (I’m going to sound corny or old fashioned) courting time, he joined the military shortly after we met. He still tries to blame me for joining, long story, NOT MY FAULT!!! ☺ However, I was able to visit wherever he was stationed so we did spend some quality time with each other. Anyway, I would be terrified to get back in the dating game.

      I think the amount of time you spend with the person you date before considering if he is worthy of you depends on how comfortable you two are with each other. For us, it was almost instant. We met, had 1 date, had what I thought would be a one night stand, but it turned out to be a 4 day stand 😉. Long story somewhat less long, after those 4 days I lost my heart to him and according to him, he felt the same way. We married 2 1/2 years later and as I said, there’s still fire after 30 years.

  4. I wish you lots of good luck girl! He might just be a keeper especially if there’s chemistry involved.

  5. Glad you had a great time! Maybe there’s a second date in the near future!!

  6. Sounds like both of you enjoyed your date. Wish you the best in the dating scene, now that you have your feet in the water I hope it gets easier to put yourself out there after what you’ve been through.

    Your Mom sounds like one-in-a-million and I’m glad she’s in your corner along with the rest of us but in a special way <3

    1. Yeah my mom’s wild and I adore her!

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